Thursday, May 18, 2006

how does your garden grow?


Last night I held my final membership class for a wonderful group of individuals considering joining Church of the Redeemer. To be honest, I was sad that it was over because I really enjoyed the excuse just to hang out with these folks. Even with two moderately grumpy babies (mine included), the class went well and as always with this group, good thoughtful questions were brought to the table (along with way too many tempting snacks--thanks, Christy!)

One of the questions was how we as a church are thinking about discipleship and what kind of format that takes in our life together. I was hard pressed to answer. We have little that is programmatic. It is, I'm afraid, one of our greatest areas of need, especially as new believers join our ranks. How do we see people maturing in their life of faith? It is the absence of this focus, I believe, that puts such great pressure on the Sunday morning experience: it becomes the one stop shop where all my needs must be met, otherwise I decide that I am simply not being "fed". This becomes frustrating for the preacher, the worship leader, the board chair :) , etc.

Yet I feel like we are constantly up against people's full schedules, the many missional commitments we share, and just plain life, not to mention work schedules (many of us work multiple jobs, night shifts, etc.) People don't want another "thing", another meeting, another church commitment.

How do we give ourselves to this journey and to one another? What place does gathering to pray, to read the scriptures, to receive instruction, to confess sin have in our corporate life? This, I believe, will determine whether we live or die as a church, not attendance benchmarks or denominational commitment.

1 Comments:

At 5:14 PM, Blogger Sheila said...

I also have a post by the same name, so was curious as I was randomly reading blogs, what this one might say. My husband is lead pastor of a small country church, so we have more in common! I, too, am frustrated with that term "being fed", maybe for different reasons than you. I am tired of hearing about people searching for a church where they can "be fed". Does Paul not tell us that babes in Christ need to be fed, and then move on to solids? What many Christians forget is that eventually, one must learn how to feed oneself, and not rely on others for nourishment. If you're not "being fed", maybe it's time to pick up a spoon and put some effort into it!
Anyway, I'm glad I stumbled upon your blog, and will try to visit again!

 

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